tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55624768290821963662024-03-12T17:08:52.664-07:00It's All About RomanceAndrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-80223509651923267462014-03-20T08:10:00.003-07:002014-09-09T05:05:06.653-07:00The Devil's Name is Ego<div style="text-align: justify;">
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I know what most of you are thinking at this point... is he (me) really
going to lecture about Ego? Someone who's made a career out of getting
photographed half nude? Well... quite frankly, yes. </span></div>
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let's go back to my opening sentence. When most people say "he or she has got an Ego"
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American people in particular would in fact often interchange the word,
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Ego is a personality we create in our
minds in an attempt to conceal what we believe are our weaknesses. It is
the urge to feel accepted and appreciated by society that gives rise to
a person's Ego, and it's not uncommon for this fabricated personality
to be almost the opposite of who the person really is deep down. I'm
sure you can recall meeting at least one person who you later became
friends with, and soon enough discovered they're nothing like what you
had anticipated. That is not due to poor character judgement, but merely
because that person would have deliberately chosen not to reveal their
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Now all this may not appear as anything negative, and it's not necessarily, until we begin to identify with our Ego. What that means is, we begin to believe we are
our Ego and that is when unhappiness kicks in. This is because we start
creating rules in our life that fulfill our Ego rather than us. Our
life becomes a journey of reassurance rather than one of experiencing
real joy. The reason so many people feel unsatisfied with their life is
because they are not being truthful to themselves in order to fuel
their Ego. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Make
no mistake, unlike confidence which indeed contributes to a successful
lifestyle, Ego is destructive. Ask yourself this: How often are
disagreements between people due to an actual problem? Let's be honest,
more often than not arguments are sustained due to Ego. The reluctance
to accept that we could be wrong, or the uncompromising desire to have
things our way simply because we believe we're worthy of it. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Ego is the root of most evil, hence the title of this blog post. Learn to let go of your insecurities, embrace who (not what) you really are, and you'll be putting an end to your Ego, an end to the Devil within. </span></div>
Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-55562792600474097122013-01-22T01:40:00.000-08:002014-05-25T09:01:09.129-07:00Fast love <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span">I don't want to go into what George Michael was probably referring to in his song titled "Fastlove"<i>,</i> but in a world where almost everything is literally a click away many seem to believe that <i>love</i> could also be available in that form. </span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span">No, I'm not talking about dating sites, that's a whole different ball game. What I'm saying is that true love cannot be on your "to do" list. </span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span">When love is defined as 'an intense feeling of deep affection' it only stands to reason that time is clearly an important issue in this matter. You cannot develop such an intense feeling overnight, well at least not the kind of feeling that will last, or one that you can call love. </span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span">Yes, we are all equipped with a phenomenal decision making tool called intuition, and nine times out of ten it is the most precise. However, sometimes people's impulsiveness can often override their intuition. </span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span">This is where the problem lies. We live in a world where almost everyone, men and women, have placed their personal ambitions at the forefront. Now although there's absolutely nothing wrong with that, it does tend to affect other areas in one's life. The reason is that we dedicate very little time to anything else, be it family, friends, or intimate relationships. </span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span">So we may believe at times, with all good intentions, that we're relying solely on our intuition, only to find out that it was actually just a spur of the moment. Sometimes we just need to slow things down, it's that simple. </span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span">This particular blog post is dedicated to a good friend, who might hopefully benefit from it in his personal life. </span></span></span></div>
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Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com17tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-3406173972638224232012-03-04T04:33:00.001-08:002014-05-25T09:02:29.733-07:00Set yourself free<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span lang="EN-US"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: small;">So it’s been exactly 494 days since I last wrote in this blog. The reason I decided to write again is possibly very closely related to this topic. You'll have a better understanding of what I'm saying once you've read it all. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="EN-US"><span class="Apple-style-span">Now to our topic... So we’ve all heard the term set yourself free quite a few times, but how often do we stop and think about its real significance? <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="EN-US"><span class="Apple-style-span">Human beings are creatures of habit, and routine seems to provide a sense of stability. The obsession with security and wanting to have the things we believe give us a better quality of life might not allow us to experience, or even explore other opportunities. It’s the fear of change that holds us back, the thought that something could go wrong or not quite work out. Another hindering factor is constantly trying to satisfy other people’s expectations. It’s much more convenient for those around us if we don’t change, because that means they wouldn’t have to change their ways to adapt to the person we have become. Just bear in mind that the ones that truly love you will accept you in any shape or form, as the phrase goes. Meaning as long as you’re happy, they’re happy for you. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="EN-US"><span class="Apple-style-span">Why is it acceptable that a child grows up and changes constantly but not adults?<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="EN-US"><span class="Apple-style-span">The truth is a healthy life is one that’s full of change. It’s a trial and error game, where failure is merely a term used to tell us <b>try again</b>. Growing is not about celebrating birthdays, but reinventing ourselves from time to time. So you should be asking yourself who you are and<b> </b>what do you really want<b> </b>more often, rather than being concerned about it. Some traits in us will obviously remain similar, because ultimately we are same person simply going through changes. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="EN-US"><span class="Apple-style-span">So just like a caterpillar getting ready to leave it’s cocoon we need to accept and embrace change in our life, disregard what other people’s perception of that might be, and set ourselves free. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="EN-US"><span class="Apple-style-span">Perhaps I still haven’t quite made it clear why it took me 494 days to write again in this blog, right? Well, let’s just say I have set myself free and I hope to inspire others to do the same. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span></div>
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Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com45tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-56834327698342667172010-10-28T14:35:00.000-07:002014-05-25T09:11:06.637-07:00Stuck in time<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Whether it’s an event in the past or a concern about the future, it is often so hard to come to terms with how ridiculous it truly is to be stuck in time.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Although it’s necessary to have some kind of a plan for the future , and of course at times it can be helpful to refer to the past before taking a decision, we do have to draw a line somewhere. The reason is that while we over analyze what happened or what will happen we are wasting precious minutes, hours or entire days, because unfortunately life doesn’t come with a <b><i>pause</i></b> function. Evidently it’s easier said than done, however it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out how important it is to live in the present, leave the past behind and allow the future to unfold. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">I have no doubt that almost everyone at some point has experienced getting into a state of utter impatience while waiting for someone or something. The reason we get into that frame of mind is because we begin to speculate and envision what we could be doing in that moment instead of just sitting around wasting time. So how different is it being immersed in a thought which doesn’t allow you to move forward?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">One of the fundamental lessons in acting class is to <i><b>be in the moment</b>,</i> and there’s a very compelling reason for that. Actors work with a script and therefore know exactly where and how each scene ends. So it’s very easy for an actor to move too far ahead because he would be thinking about his next line and how to deliver it, rather than actually listening to what is being said to him and giving a reaction to that. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Similarly in life we could easily be losing out on many things that are happening around us now if we concentrate too much on the future or the past. Sunset implies the ending of each day, while every sunrise is the beginning of a new one, and that’s exactly how it should be perceived. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">You build a better future by making a better day, everyday. </span></span></div>
Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com37tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-28581029992891326642010-04-04T16:32:00.000-07:002014-05-25T09:32:19.162-07:00What’s on the menu?<div style="text-align: justify;">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Okay, so I’m sure you have asked yourself this question before “Why would men risk losing a perfect relationship for a night with some random girl?” “What is it that drives men to have a secret relationship which then slowly has them drift away?” </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">No matter what people say, intimacy is the foundation of every healthy relationship. Unless the chemistry is there the relationship is not going to work. It might of course last for other reasons which I will not elaborate on, but it certainly wouldn’t quite be a cut out from a romance novel. The craving for physical intimacy is instinctive in both men and women, however many couples, particularly those in a long term relationship tend to challenge this instinct and most times attempt to replace it with something else, such as their career. </span></span></div>
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Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com24tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-37309994160002012092010-03-03T14:19:00.000-08:002014-05-25T09:12:39.580-07:00Shacking up… too soon?<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: inherit;">If you live in a fairly conservative community I’m sure you’ve often heard people state that couples should wait until they’re married to live together, but how often do you get valid reason for that? Many claim it’s not quite right, but I could vow that most of those same people don’t even really know why.<br /><br />Well I’m not one of those people. I believe it’s an important step, and prior to committing any further a couple needs to be sure they can live ‘agreeably’ under the same roof.<br /><br />There’s a huge difference between dating, no matter how intense it is, and actually living together. Those hours spent alone can really unwind a person and prepare them for another encounter. Perhaps what many people fail to understand is that those hours tend to decrease dramatically when you’re living with your partner. You normally also discover a few traits which were not so evident before. Some that you could like, while others you might not be too keen on.<br /><br />But then what happens if you simply can’t live with certain incompatibilities? And what if you discover that once you’re already married? Oh that’s right, you live unhappily ever after…<br /><br />Living together involves a lot of compromise a mature approach. It can also really determine a couple’s faith in my opinion, because whilst many things can be somehow worked out, it’s only realistic to acknowledge that there isn’t quite a solution for every problem in life. </span></div>
Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com16tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-37553362186072225902010-02-10T08:25:00.000-08:002014-05-25T09:14:14.377-07:00Dial 911… it’s PMS<div align="justify">
<span style="font-family: inherit;">Let me start by saying this, most men have no clue of what PMS really is. We often hear the word and pretend to know all about it, but the there is nothing quite like it in a man’s lifetime.<br /><br />So how do men deal with it? How do we handle the hormone outbursts which translate in those rather unpleasant mood swings? Well, I read that the exact causes of PMS are still not fully understood. However the symptoms are clear, tension, irritability, insomnia, anxiety, fatigue… the list goes on and on. Apparently there are over 200 symptoms in total which have been associated to PMS. Personally that tells me it’s a no win situation.<br /><br />Certainly it is no walk in the park, and I assure you some men must dread that time of month possibly more than their woman. It could also be a relief if you’ve been having unprotected sex of course, but it comes with a price. With many women PMS is not about being extra sensitive, it’s more along the lines of IMPOSSIBLE. So anyway, most men have come up with an antidote or rather a defense mode. A very simple method really, you just have to respond positively when necessary.<br /><br />It is like that SLEEP mode on your computer, which takes up very little power and it is not quite processing anything. </span></div>
Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com17tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-68112610341315354872009-11-15T09:24:00.000-08:002014-05-25T09:14:41.411-07:00Sometimes it stops, sometimes it flows… but that is how love goes<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Although the L word gets thrown around a lot in relationships, the truth is that love tends to go through somewhat of a pattern. One day it feels really intense while another day it seems to fade away. Women would rarely admit this during the relationship because they fear it might trigger off a break-up, but many times it’s rather evident. That doesn’t necessarily mean the relationship is going downhill, however if it occurs frequently then it’s probably a different story.</span></span></div>
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Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-17809366547502315702009-10-09T07:40:00.000-07:002014-05-25T09:15:22.380-07:00Oceans Apart<div style="text-align: justify;">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">People have different views on this, but when a couple is geographically separated there are few directions the relationship can go. It either builds up strength or completely collapses. Time is normally what determines the faith of any relationship. However I believe it is completely wrong for people to say that once they’re distant from their significant other things get out of control. We have control on every decision we take and every move we make. So why blame it on the ocean? </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Perhaps for some it becomes a convenient excuse without really having to reveal their true motive. Distance is not always easy to deal with but certainly not impossible. If a couple is individually in doubt then more often than not it will just be a memory by sunset. Whereas a proper understanding of what each person involved is truly looking for can make it through the roughest seas.</span></span> </div>
Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-16977277983407929252009-09-21T08:30:00.000-07:002014-05-25T09:16:36.265-07:00Priorities…<span style="font-family: inherit;">Well we have all heard this word over and over, but how often do we stop and contemplate the priorities in our life? What are the fundamentals and what should be on the top of our priority list?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Many people claim to have different priorities in their life but then very few people seem to be totally satisfied if their love life is lacking. So what does that tell you, shouldn't love really be the priority?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">We all go through stages in our life and it’s very often a cycle, however I feel many people, especially those involved in somewhat of a long term relationship tend to place their love life on the back burner way too often. This is predominantly a guy thing, but not exclusively. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><br />Many times the dispute seems to be over the fact that men claim they have a responsibility to provide a living for themselves and their significant other. Although it is essential to have a decent income to live well it becomes a little pointless when the process of generating that income is shattering everything else in your life. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">So what is the secret to live a good all round life? The secret is learning what’s really important to you. Discovering what really makes a difference to your everyday life and placing them on the top of your priority list. I guess it’s really a matter of striking a balance.</span></div>
Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-18200588657231293632009-08-16T02:01:00.000-07:002014-05-25T09:18:12.848-07:00Woman’s best friend?<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">So what’s happened to simply going out and buying a new handbag and a pair shoes after a break-up? It seems nowadays women are seeking comfort in slightly larger accessories.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">There’s no question that for most women a break-up can be hard to deal with. While some tend to almost immediately bounce onto some other guy, many others make use of this time to discover themselves, some take that discovery process a step further and go through an entire wardrobe transformation and often also change their ride. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">It would very prejudiced to say that this is a woman’s thing though, matter of fact numerous men give extreme importance to the car they drive, and it’s certainly not because they want to ensure a comfortable ride wherever they go. The reason is that some men believe others could possibly envision the car they drive as an extension to their personality. More often than not of course this couldn’t be further from the truth. Cars these days are almost like shields for many people, used to protect the vulnerable and insecure person beneath. </span></span></div>
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Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com20tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-78015995333840382742009-08-02T01:30:00.001-07:002014-05-25T09:18:48.365-07:00Summer lovin’<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">So what is it with summer that revives romance? Could it just be the warmer climate that sometimes makes us react in a different manner? </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">There’s something sensual about being on a beach, and it’s not just the weightless clothing, but perhaps it’s more about being in an all natural environment which for many has become somewhat of a rare thing these days. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Somehow in summer people tend to turn to the simpler things in life, and it’s quite evident that almost everyone finds this season more pleasant in spite of the extreme temperatures certain parts of the world experience. Summer is a time which is all about the outdoors and with a little thought and planning can be a very romantic time of year. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">It’s that connection with nature which often amplifies the romance. This is why so many people envision their honeymoon or romantic escape on some remote island surrounded with palm trees, cliffs and beautiful beaches. In a way it’s going back to basics, forgetting about all the high rise buildings which include all amenities possible, luxury cars, cellular phones and everything else we have become addicted to. </span></span></div>
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Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-9585349698579832792009-06-28T07:11:00.000-07:002014-05-25T09:19:14.375-07:00Opposites attract<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">You’ve probably heard this over and over again, but do opposites really attract? Does this statement make any sense at all? </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Perhaps it’s true in some cases but it’s definitely not the rule. What happens often is that curiosity overrides our true emotions and drives people to venture into something which seems interesting or mysterious. It rarely lasts a lifetime, in fact I believe more often than not it’s very much a temporary thing which eventually fades away. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">There’s no question that it is human nature to explore and discover, however when it comes to relationships on daily basis it is crucial that a couple does share similar interests in some way or another. There’s enough compromise between a man and a woman under normal circumstances, let alone when they are seen as opposites. Simple things such as following a similar diet plan or a regular exercise regime can make life a lot more pleasant and easier. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">How can you possibly merge two completely different lifestyles? Unless someone decides to change I’m bound to believe it will only last as long as the initial attraction does.</span></span> </div>
Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com15tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-60611735852415399342009-05-23T08:56:00.000-07:002014-05-25T09:19:33.479-07:00Work it out<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Alright so let me begin by saying this is not about getting in shape for the summer or anything like that. What I’m talking about here is making the effort to work around a relationship that sometimes may find itself going downhill. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">We all like to envision a life which somewhat mimics a romance novel, however we also need to understand that there are external factors in life which sometimes disturb our prime instinct. Many people experience a substantial amount of anxiety in their everyday life which could very easily influence their mood and often produce impulsive behavior. That’s just human nature I guess, but nevertheless it should be controlled. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Since we cannot always be pro-active and determine our next move we need to at least learn to recognize our mistakes, and of course rectify. That is what will really get us through the day. It is a fact that relationships are not always easy to maintain. Problems arise sometimes and things could get complicated, however there are also many instances where we find ourselves complicating matters and creating problems for no valid reason.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">The truth is a relationship can be very simple. If there is significant chemistry between two people, and of course the situation still makes sense then there really is nothing else to it. Occasionally perhaps you go through some rough times, but you work it out and you move on …and just like a romance novel, you both live happily ever after.</span></span></div>
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Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-88244368384915608582009-04-26T14:23:00.000-07:002014-05-25T09:20:00.303-07:00A matter of time?<div align="justify">
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">People say you need to allow a relationship time to really understand its value. So just how much time is needed then? </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">In a city like New York where nobody wastes a single minute you learn that our time really is precious. A survey carried out in the United States revealed that over 30% of marriages take place after a couple dates for 1 to 2 years. 15% occur after dating for less than 1 year, and almost 20% after 6 months or less. After reading these statistics many will probably argue that it’s no wonder the divorce rate in America is so high. This same survey also disclosed that over 73% of these couples lived together before getting married. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Yes I believe that every relationship is different, but furthermore that is because we tend to change throughout the years. We discover more about ourselves, what we like and dislike. We understand our boundaries, what is acceptable to us and what is not. It is a combination of strong chemistry along with somewhat of a methodological assessment.<br /><br />The physical attraction is not enough, we need to also be practical when we evaluate our compatibility. In a way it is like using a risk meter to measure the odds. The potential of a relationship to some extent can be established within weeks, provided both are honest and obviously spend a reasonable amount of time together.</span></span></div>
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Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-17891140472588936032009-04-10T20:44:00.000-07:002014-05-25T09:20:22.605-07:00Making the move<div style="text-align: justify;">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">It’s almost a rule that a man should take the first step towards a woman. Similarly it’s as though some consider it an indignity for a woman to approach a man she is attracted to. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Well in ancient Rome and many other civilizations women had practically no rights over their children or themselves. Women could never overrule what their husband would say, even in the decision of whether or not to have children. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Things have clearly changed now in most countries, however the custom somehow still seems to exist although in a much more lenient form. Most women are still not comfortable expressing their sexuality in public, and it seems like it is still somewhat of an exception for a woman to make her move on a man. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />Women want to be desired and one reason they hold back is the assumption that they would appear less available. What some fail to understand though is that sometimes unless they make that move nothing will ever transpire. The potential of a relationship is not always evident to a man, especially someone who is looking to avoid that commitment. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />There’s no question that it requires some self confidence for a woman to walk up to a man she finds attractive, and even if it only lasts one night I assure you the impression will live on. </span></span></div>
Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-81907079962926619932009-03-27T23:49:00.001-07:002014-05-25T09:20:36.792-07:00Nothing is real until it’s gone…<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">It’s a sad reality that people tend to take so much for granted in life. Yes we are living in a fast and competitive world, but now does that justify anything? </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">The truth is routine gives people a sense of security, however it is that very same routine which creates a disregard for certain things in life. When something is fresh we almost give our undivided attention, a few weeks or months go by and we hardly acknowledge anymore. Relationships evidently are no exception. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">I could come up with a number of different reasons why this occurs, but I have no question that there is one way of really knowing what something means to us. Sometimes it might just be too late, but when something is not around anymore we suddenly begin to evaluate what we had. It does not have to be a separation or divorce to learn the value of a relationship. Living distant temporarily can bring out the real emotions and help discover an aspect you have not quite seen or experienced before. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">So it really is about learning to appreciate everything we have this very moment. Not tomorrow or even in an hour, but right now. This is your life and it is ending one minute at a time.</span></span></div>
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Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-6937311873412777242009-03-21T17:45:00.001-07:002014-05-25T09:21:50.726-07:00Love on 5th Avenue<div style="text-align: justify;">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">I was walking down 5th avenue a few minutes ago when out of the blue I found myself asking "Can people really find love around here?"</span></span> </div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">With a population density of almost 67,000 people per square mile Manhattan is a place where variety is certainly not lacking. There are thousands of people walking across town every day. Here you will come across every possible look and style… but is it really just about finding the look or style that you consider attractive? </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">As much as I like living here in New York City the truth is everyone in this place seems to be searching for fame and fortune rather than just a pleasant and prosperous life. It appears that many struggle simply to get by each day, and if they get laid off work it might just be a matter of time before they get evicted. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">So how could people expect to find genuine love in this joint? </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />Whether they live in denial or simply accept the reality for what it is I believe at some point everyone wants to experience a true romance and discover that person who will change their world. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">They call Manhattan the city that never sleeps, perhaps that is because none dares to ever close their eyes and set themselves free for one minute.</span></span></div>
Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-31289628250727969132009-02-27T11:23:00.001-08:002014-05-25T09:22:59.546-07:00Looking for your soulmate?<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Well listen to this, there are web sites claiming they can help you find your soulmate. A psychic will apparently cast a spell which will speed up the process of finding your soulmate, and all this for as little as $25. It might sound hilarious at first, but when you see that individuals like this are still in business it can become somewhat of a concern. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />Many people seem to believe that their soulmate is lingering somewhere, and that it is only a matter of time for them to meet. But what exactly is a soulmate anyway? </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />The concept of a soulmate actually goes back to the belief in reincarnation. It is someone that supposedly you have encountered and loved in many different lifetimes. It is for this reason that the very first time you meet them in this life you feel as though you have known them forever. There is a mystical déjà vu energy right from the start. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />So how far off is your interpretation of a soulmate now?<br /><br />The idea most people have is that a soulmate is simply a person they are a 100% compatible with. Someone they can feel totally comfortable having around in any situation and setting.<br /><br />I guess what many are missing is the fact that people change throughout the years. That is not necessarily a negative thing but every relationship is bound to go through a few rough patches. It is the way you decide to deal with it that makes it work or fall apart. Soulmates or not a relationship will always require dedication to keep it going. Yes character compatibility is crucial for a healthy relationship, and I believe everyone could find somebody who can understand them more. However you have to be realistic and know you cannot expect others to read your mind at all times.</span></span></div>
Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com18tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-44986796953463085172009-02-13T16:22:00.000-08:002014-05-25T09:23:36.114-07:00Is cupid still alive?<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">So Valentine’s Day comes along and suddenly every couple is supposed to act like they’ve just been struck by love. As though nothing else matters anymore other that their partner. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">You ask most women and they’ll tell you Valentine’s Day is special, but none will really give you a reason why. Men on the other hand will tell you it’s a day like any other and don’t see what all the fuss is about. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">So how are people interpreting this day? What has going out for a romantic dinner got to do with all this? </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Well here’s what I believe. Women generally put a lot more effort into relationships, and often have a hard time keeping that anticipation alive. Saint Valentine’s is a great day to revitalize what might have somewhat faded away throughout the previous months. So in a way it's almost as though the couple are discreetly renewing their vows.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Now although I personally don’t see why one should wait for February 14 to express some affection it’s a good day to assess what’s happening in the romance department. Therefore planning that romantic dinner or perhaps just some quality time is probably quite beneficial after all.</span></span></div>
Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-88225820121031626542009-02-04T11:15:00.000-08:002014-05-25T09:24:08.859-07:00Sex, love and chocolate<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Valentine’s Day is around the corner and according to the National Confectioners Association in Santa Barbara, California each year particulary over this period Americans spend over $1.1 billion on candy, 75% of which is chocolate.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">So what’s the deal with chocolate? Most women say they love it, some even claim it’s better than sex. Not really something men would state I guess, or at least not so openly. A brief research conducted by Dr. Andrew Scott, a student at UCL London reveals that it’s suspected phenylethylamine which is one of the compounds found in cocoa causes an emotional high similar to being in love. It stimulates the nervous system and increases the heart rate and blood pressure. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">A chemical also known to be released in the brain when eating chocolate is serotonin, which gives a sense of well-being. Chocolate also helps women relieve stress and get in a romantic mood, which normally results in more sensual and passionate sex. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">So should chocolate be classified as a drug or food? and is it just women who posses this craving? </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Personally I believe it is neither of the two, and in spite of what some people claim it is in no way addictive. It’s the combination of sugar and fat which makes the flavor of chocolate so desirable not the compounds it contains. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Similarly men crave for sugar and fat occasionally. Perhaps not as often as women who due to their menstrual cycle end up with a frequent hormone imbalance, this creates the famous mood swings and that is when the craving reaches its peak. Most men wouldn’t admit that they sometimes crave chocolate as well, the reason is that it can be interpreted as a weakness, which is obviously something men desperately attempt to obscure.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">There’s clearly something sensual about chocolate, probably the fact that it melts at just above body temperature. However, next time your date, boyfriend or husband offers you chocolate know that there could very well be an underlying reason. </span></span></div>
Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-8074486205534038742009-01-28T13:22:00.000-08:002014-05-25T09:24:24.502-07:00It's a material world<div style="text-align: justify;">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">We are living in a world which is somewhat dominated by aesthetics. A world where men and women practically compete on a daily basis to look their best. Having said that a large percentage of women simply adore the idea of dressing up in the latest fashion, accessories and jewelry. Many women also strive to look sexy and attractive for their partner. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">With most men things are a little different though. Many guys try to use material items to attract the opposite sex. In fact some believe it’s almost like a mathematical formula to the sound of <b>unlimited credit card + expensive car = attractive female</b>. I’m convinced it could work for some but in my opinion the catch wouldn’t really be worth the chase. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">This is the 21st century, where everyone wants to be in the public eye and celebrities seem to rule the world. Lindsay Lohan is seen wearing a Louis Vuitton bag and suddenly every girl wants one just like it. Britney Spears has made the color white a trend in sports cars and sport utility vehicles after making headlines with her white Mercedes and Range Rover. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">There’s nothing wrong with men and women being into material things, I’m absolutely fine with that. Driving a stylish sports car, dressing up in high end designer wear and jewelry can be appealing, however if your date is found trying to check out the tag on your underwear then it might be a little too much. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Fashion is absolutely great if used correctly and doesn’t become an obsession. Yes people can certainly enhance their appearance and look more attractive wearing the right clothing and accessories, but these days it seems as though the label is given more importance than the attire itself. Similarly the car seems to be getting more attention than the person behind the wheel.</span></span></div>
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Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-44119816403190557772009-01-21T06:46:00.000-08:002014-05-25T09:25:06.822-07:00Call him Mr.Vain?<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">So just how aware are men about their appearance? Let me spell it out for you V-E-R-Y </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Likewise so are women of course, but they get away with it, because they’re women. Double standards… whatever! Men on the other hand get tagged if they project that vision. No I’m talking about getting tagged on MySpace or facebook, I’m saying people will keep mentioning that he is a vain person. Possibly even call him narcissistic or gay! </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Oh yeah… I get that all the time. Does it bother me? Absolutely not. It’s my job and I get paid to maintain my appearance, but obviously some people don’t appreciate that. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">The truth is all men are vain irrelevant of what they try to exhibit. The same way every woman enjoys a man lusting over her, men want to be physically desired by women. It is our instinct to seduce in order to obtain sex and besides everyone takes pleasure in being the object of fantasy. It is also a fact that women lust just as much as men do. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">There is an obvious reason why men on the covers of romance novels look the way they do. Similarly girls on the cover of playboy magazine all look a certain way, to put it mildly. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">It’s a game of seduction whether you acknowledge it or not. Many men live in denial though and sometimes attempt to compensate for the lack of self confidence with material assets such as cars. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">The definition of the word vain is excessively proud or concerned about one’s appearance. In my opinion this word often gets thrown around without much thought, because really, who isn’t concerned about their appearance?!</span></span></div>
Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-21826194163145211562009-01-07T01:38:00.001-08:002014-05-25T09:25:34.044-07:00It started with a kiss…<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Okay so perhaps nothing else really happened between Britney Spears and Madonna after the infamous kiss, however it’s a different story when it comes to real romance. The importance of a kiss may often be overlooked. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Most men see kissing simply as a gateway to sex, women on the other hand evaluate a man by the way he kisses. Many women in fact actually state that unless the guy is a good kisser it’s going to take him quite a while to get her into bed. This is because most women are stimulated faster by kissing than any other physical activity. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">So now if every romance starts with a kiss, shouldn’t that be enough to depict the importance of this act?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">A lot of men wouldn’t confess this but initially the way a girl kisses is very important to us too. Perhaps because it’s really in a man’s subconscious. I guess it gives us an indication on how passionate she is, which would then possibly translate to her bedroom skills. As a relationship develops it seems that many men somewhat lose interest in kissing and would much rather move straight on to sex, in contrast to women who continue to make kissing a priority.<br /><br />I believe kissing is essential to maintain a healthy relationship, and the minute it begins to feel unnecessary then obviously something’s wrong.</span></span> </div>
Andrei Claudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08459236098821996512noreply@blogger.com15tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5562476829082196366.post-48471089625654342242008-12-17T01:36:00.000-08:002014-05-25T09:26:13.766-07:00Sleeping single… a disgrace or just more space?<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">When you stop and think about it sleeping is really just a time to rest. It’s essential for good physical and mental health, and should not be neglected. Still there are many people who don’t manage to get a good night’s sleep each day. There are of course many reasons why this happens, but I’m just going to tackle the issue many couples have. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Women like to have a man at their side during the night. It’s a warm and secure feeling which probably provides a deep and more comfortable night’s sleep. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Men on the other hand actually have disturbed sleep when there’s someone else in the bed. The size of bed is irrelevant. It’s also irrelevant whether or not they’ve had sex before. The exact reason for this isn’t quite clear, but most men tend to sleep lightly when there’s a woman next to them.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Some studies have suggested that it could be an instinctive thing, kind of like the man watches over his woman at night. Whatever… </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">So what, does this mean men and women should sleep in separate beds? Well 23% of American couples apparently do that. Perhaps that isn’t quite the best solution though. When it comes to sleeping a couple should be clear about what allows them to get a good rest and what disturbs them at night. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">Sleep is a selfish part of life. It’s about waking up refreshed and being ready for a new day, so cut the man some slack and avoid the usual “why are you giving me your back?” question, because it’s nothing personal, he just wants to get some sleep, that's the reason why.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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